Family and Marriage

Love is the thing which is unmentioned in explicit way, but the well-known point of whole marriage. What is it like to be if we do not keep that feeling to ourself? Marriage happens cause of love and also survive cause of the same thing. Since I have not married yet, the only figure I could evidently know about marriage thing is my parents. I was born after my parents had been married for two years.

As the time flies and I am grown up, I know that we can not choose who is going to be our family. It is like something that had been designed to each of us as our destiny. I am now having parents and a little sister in a family. Besides the marriage of my parents as a foundation of family, each member of family should also giving contribution such as communicating and supporting each other.

In the real life, every partner deal with various problems of relationship in a family. In family we will face the things such as conflict, pro and contradiction, and another controversy. It is all actually the common things. It depends on how we could keep the things in the right track. Thus, some problems are might be well-handed, but some others are beyond control. If there comes this case when things become totally wrong and already out of control, then it usually leads to a divorce.

Divorce itself, means the partner is already agree to live in separate path each other. In my perception, I believe when it eventually comes to a decision “divorce”, the partner must have already tried to fix things as good as they can in a family. However, it might be bad and leave severe sorrow to children. In some cases it also offer psychological disorder such as traumatic. The stability of family must have been influenced a lot by that occurance. So, what is still left in a family after all?

Marriage and family is the thing that completing each other. Back in my perception, when family is mentioned, I tend to define it as a relation of inner feeling. As long as the family keep doing their role; communicating and supporting even after the failure of marriage, there would not be any other good thing than maintain it. The family, however, could not lost its true chemistry. That is to always loving and caring no matter how the condition and the situation is.

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CC: An Assignment for Essay Writing. An attempt to write under the terms and rules of good writing. Since I think the lecture emphasize to manage the concept first, I decide to not explore the topic further, so that writing project above is still lack of good materials and intellectual descriptive. Feel free to comment! ;-)